Social anxiety is one of those struggles that often hides in plain sight. From the outside, it can look like shyness, introversion, or even rudeness — but in reality, it’s something deeper and heavier.
At its core, social anxiety is the fear of being judged, embarrassed, or rejected in social situations. It’s not just about feeling nervous before a big presentation; it’s the everyday moments that can feel overwhelming — like speaking up in class, ordering at a café, or even making eye contact with strangers. For someone with social anxiety, these small interactions can trigger racing thoughts (“What if I mess up? What if they laugh at me?”) along with physical symptoms like sweating, shaking, or a pounding heartbeat.
Unlike introversion, which is a preference for calm and solitude, social anxiety is more of a trap. The person usually wants to connect, talk, and be part of things, but the fear locks them down. Over time, this can lead to avoiding opportunities, isolating from others, and struggling with self-esteem.
But here’s the important part: social anxiety is not a life sentence. With awareness, therapy, gradual exposure, and self-compassion, people can slowly retrain their minds to feel safer in social situations. Even small steps — like practicing a short conversation with a friend, or celebrating the courage it takes to show up — can be victories worth recognizing.
The truth is, many people around us are silently carrying this weight. By understanding social anxiety, we can replace judgment with empathy — and remind those who struggle that they’re not broken, they’re just fighting battles most of us can’t see
Blog By
Luthfi, S3 BBA, DCMS
Al Shifa College of Arts and Science
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